Writing a letter to a friend or family member—especially when they’re going through a tough time—can feel overwhelming. But once you start, you’ll find the words flow more easily than you expect. We want to encourage you to put pen to paper and share a little kindness through the power of writing. Here are some helpful tips to get you started.

How Do I Begin?

Sometimes, the hardest part is getting started. To help, we’ve put together ten great opening lines [here].

Remember, you’re writing to someone you care about. Think about the way you’ve spoken to them before—keep that warmth in mind, and let your words naturally unfold from there.

How Should I Sign Off?

A thoughtful sign-off can leave your recipient feeling reassured and comforted. It’s important to avoid making them feel pressured to respond. Consider using a closing line like:

I hope this letter has brought you a little joy. Please don’t feel the need to write back—I’ll be in touch again soon.

Best wishes,
[Your Name]

What Should I Write About?

Keep it light and personal. Share a snippet of your day, a favorite book, a funny moment, or even something interesting you overheard. Anything that brings a smile or offers a moment of connection is worth sharing.

If you need inspiration, we have some wonderful sample letters [here]. Just remember: getting past the first few sentences is the hardest part. Once you’ve written one letter, the rest will come much more easily.

What If I Say the Wrong Thing?

Don’t worry—your good intentions will guide your words. It’s okay to express that you’re unsure what to say. Simply acknowledging that you’re thinking of them can mean the world.

How Much Should I Write?

There are no rules! A simple postcard saying hello can be just as meaningful as a three-page letter. Use whatever medium feels right—greeting cards, lined paper, fancy stationery, or even a doodle on a napkin. Every word counts.

Where Can I Find Sample Letters for Inspiration?

We’ve compiled a selection of sample letters to spark ideas and help you get started. You can find them [here], and we’re always adding more.

I’m Not a Confident Writer—What Else Can I Include?

A letter doesn’t have to be just words. Add a poem, a quick sketch, or even a handmade card. Expressing yourself creatively in any form will make your message even more special.

Make Someone’s Day with a Letter

Taking the time to write to a loved one is one of the simplest yet most meaningful things you can do. A heartfelt letter can brighten someone’s day, offer comfort, or remind them that they are loved. So why not take a moment today to put your thoughts onto paper and send a little kindness their way? You never know how much your words might mean to someone.

Happy Writing!